You said, what I have been thinking for a long time. While I love people of all color, I DO NOT like anyone who is cruel. If a Black person is cruel to me, I do not like them. This makes me a racist? Most of the time, it sure does. If I want to celebrate my German heritage, this makes me a racist? Most of the time. And when I celebrate Chinese New Year it makes me "wordly." Something is wrong here and you hit the nail on the head without coming off in any way mean about it. Thank you!